G'day
I feel it a great thing for women that fish, I learned alot of my offshore and trolling skills from the female deckie I was working with. She was absolutly brilliant.
I'd love a partner that would be interested in fishing and the water, as it means there's another realm for you both to explore.
I wouldnt feel any different about being beaten... a win is a win and a loss a loss.
As for getting advice? If the person is better than you, you'd be the fool not to take advice and learn from it. Sex is not the issue
Dave