Hi Nick
good post mate as you can see there is no wrong or right , all of the responses have merit to their various owners. like everything you can make it as easy or as hard as you like (or can tolerate)
For me I done all sorts of overnighting from heading out with a six pak and a rod to open fire to gas to full camper setups.
for mine the gen , coffee and fry pan was the best money i ever spent, ( Jesus boys I've see tents that cost more than $500)
what will last from your experience is ....... "the first impression" (happy wife happy life )
what ever you do have fun and enjoy. ( the $10 burger may actual be the best option but I dont know the area you planning on using)
BigE