My Missus was the same, so I bought a Patrol anyway (being a consultative and generous chap). Within weeks she was in love. Then I bought the Cruiser last year, and again, she was worried. Now she adores it! The only issue with the Cruiser is height - she has to park it outside at the shopping centre. The carpark handling of the 200 series is excellent, and it's top notch at bullying your way into a contested park!
Cheers,
Tim
Carbon Really Ain't Pollution.